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Office Insights: Do you have "grit"?

 

If you were asked to name three predictors of career success, what would you say?  You might mention intelligence, talent, friendliness, or responsibility.  But would the word “grit” have occurred to you?  Researchers have recently found that “grit” is an excellent predictor of achievement, possibly better than aptitude or intelligence.

 

Grit is defined as “determination to accomplish ambitious, long-term goals despite inevitable obstacles”.  This quality seems to combine perseverance, passion, self-discipline, and optimism.  But interestingly, grit does not correlate with intelligence.  Those at all levels of intellectual ability can demonstrate grit – or the lack of it. 

 

In studies, grit has been found to predict success in groups as diverse as West Point cadets, real estate agents, and spelling bee winners.  People high on grit agree with statements like “I finish whatever I begin”, but disagree with such statements as “My interests change from year to year”.

 

So if you’re a manager, look for evidence of grit the next time you hire an employee.  And if you’re a parent, the grit studies offer two suggestions: 1) praise effort, not intelligence and 2) help children find their passion by exposing them to a wide range of activities.  (Source: Monitor on Psychology, November, 2007)

 

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“Six Strategies to Boost Your Career” from our “Career Insights” section:

http://www.yourofficecoach.com/YOCOfficeInsights/OI_career.htm#six%20strategies

 

 

I'm Not "One of the Girls"

 

Q:  I am a male employee who has trouble relating to female supervisors and managers.  I don’t mind them personally, but I resent the way they deal with events in their lives, like divorces or weddings.

 

When women managers have some sort of life event going on, they spend lots of time talking with female employees, but completely ignore me and the other men.  They don’t even acknowledge our existence.

 

I am usually the first person to arrive at the office, but the female managers don’t even say “good morning” when they come in.  They just start chatting with the other women.  How can I keep a positive attitude when I am excluded from their conversations? 

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