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Quick Quiz:  Extraverted or Introverted?

 

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This Quick Quiz provides a general idea of whether you are more extraverted or introverted. 

The styles are described at the end of the quiz. 

INSTRUCTIONS

For each item, distribute 3 points between choices (A) and (B).  Use whole numbers, not 1.5.  

 Example:   If you feel that (A) is almost always true of you, then give 3 points to (A) and none to (B). 

If (A) is often true, but (B) is also sometimes true, then give 2 points to (A) and 1 point to (B).

 

 Use your <TAB> key to move from box to box.

1.  

(A)  At parties, I tend to talk a lot.

 

(B)  At parties, I tend to listen a lot.

 

2.  

 

 

(A)  People view me as lively and outgoing.

  (B)  People view me as calm and reserved.
 

3.

 

 

(A)  I express my opinions openly.

  (B)  I keep my opinions to myself.
 

4.

 

 

(A)  People think that I am easy to get to know.

 

(B)  People think that I am hard to get to know.

 

5.

 

 

(A)  I enjoy social gatherings where I can meet lots of new people.

 

(B)  I enjoy being home alone and having time to myself.

 

6.

 

 

(A)  I tend to speak before I think.

  (B)  I tend to think before I speak.
 

7.

 

 

(A)  On a plane, I enjoy talking with people I don’t know.

  (B)  On a plane, I prefer not to talk to people.
 

8.

 

 

(A)  Spending too much time alone makes me tired.

  (B)  Spending too much time with other people makes me tired.
 

9.

 

 

(A)  When I have a decision to make, I like to talk it over with other people.

  (B)  When I have a decision to make, I like to think it through on my own.
 

10.

 

 

(A)  In my neighborhood or apartment complex, I know many people.

  (B)  In my neighborhood or apartment complex, I know a few people.

You will need to manually total your scores and enter them in the boxes below.

 

§          Total for (A) responses:

          

0                                                                     15                                                                    30

Low Extraversion                                                                                             High Extraversion

 

§          Total for (B) responses:  

 

0                                                                     15                                                                    30

Low Introversion                                                                                             High Introversion


 

Understanding Extraverts & Introverts

 

If you have a high score in one category, then you may be likely to use that style most of the time.  A moderate score may mean that you tend to be introverted in some situations and extraverted in others.  In general, extraverts are more outwardly focused, while introverts are more inwardly focused.  Here are some common differences between these two styles.   (NOTE: A Quick Quiz does not substitute for a formal psychological assessment.)

 

Extraverts

Introverts

 

Problem Solving

 

Tend to think out loud.  Do their best thinking while talking.  Prefer to bounce ideas off others.  Like to use meetings and group discussions to solve problems.

 

 

Tend to process information internally.  Do their best thinking quietly and alone.  Want to develop their views before discussing an issue.   

 

Communication

 

Prefer face-to-face communication if at all possible.  Like to see reactions and non-verbal behavior.  Want immediate feedback.  Don’t like writing long emails or memos.

 

 

Prefer emails and voice messages.  Avoid unnecessary interaction.  Don’t like to waste time with discussion.  Prefer to think before reacting.  Dislike long meetings.

 

 

Decision Making

 

Get input from others before making decisions.  Want to act quickly in a crisis. 

 

 

Comfortable making independent decisions.  Want time to reflect before acting.

 

 

Interpersonal Interaction

 

Seek out opportunities to talk and socialize.  Are energized by interaction and feel drained by too much time alone.  Usually know lots of people.

 

 

Seek out opportunities for quiet and solitude.  Feel drained by too much interaction and need time alone to recharge.  Budget their “people time” carefully.

 

 

Concentration

& Focus

 

More focused on people and things around them.  Have trouble concentrating when quiet.  Get bored if they have to sit and focus too long on one thing.  Don’t mind interruptions. 

 

 

More focused on internal thoughts and ideas.  Often carry on an internal dialogue.  Enjoy quietly focusing on one thing at a time.  Are annoyed by interruptions. 

 

 

Natural

 Strengths

 

Energizing people and groups

Taking immediate action

Creating a sense of excitement

Introducing people to others

 

 

Calming people and groups

Assessing the situation before acting

Listening to the ideas of others

Taking independent action

 

Natural Weaknesses 

 

Failing to give others space to talk

Not listening to input from others

Not putting things in writing

Acting without thinking

 

Failing to share their thoughts

Not asking for input from others

Relying too much on writing

Taking too long to act

 

 

How They

Annoy Others

 

By talking too much and failing to provide opportunities for others to get into the conversation.    

 

 

By failing to share their thoughts, join in discussions, or react to what is said by others.    

 

 

How They Are Misunderstood

 

May be mistakenly viewed as self-centered and uninterested in others.    

 

 

May be mistakenly viewed as aloof, shy, or unfriendly.    

 

 

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